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Jon Sinn and Carlos Xuma
Present:
Beyond Seduction: 3
Days To Confidence And
Techniques With Women
October 22-24, 2010
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The 5 Ways To Get The Most Out
Of Your Experience
1. Take Notes. Break your hand if you need to, ask me to repeat things
or give you more time. The notes are what you pay for on your
bootcamp. You should have At least 10-12 pages per day.
2. Don’t argue, just do. Everything an instructor tells you to do has a
reason behind it. Sometimes it may be counterintuitive or not make
sense to you. Don’t worry about that, instead just do what we tell you
to do without arguing.
3. Be willing to Be Honest With Yourself And Your Instructors. There
are parts of your personality that are not helpful or meeting and
attracting women. You have to be willing to look at yourself and how
you communicate objectively without getting your feelings hurt in
order to improve.
4. Be process oriented, not results oriented. Don’t worry about how any
of the other students are doing or if the instructors think you’re cool.
Focus on the process of meeting girls, and the results will take care of
themselves.
5. The Comfort Zone is the enemy. Your body will try to trick and make
you feel like you are going to die if you do something outside of your
comfort zone. But it is only by changing our comfort zone that we can
improve our lives.
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Notes On Female Psychology
I. The Key to understanding the relationship between evolution and attraction can be
stated thusly. Women are evolutionarily programmed to seek out the sperm(and
consequently man) who will offer the best chance at helping her have healthy(and sexy)
sons and daughters. Subconsciously this causes women to sort men into two categories,
Lovers and Providers. Furthermore the difference between a lover and a provider often
comes down to the man’s ability to demonstrate dominance. Dominance is THE factor
that causes attraction, as women are evolutionarily programmed to seek out dominant
men. If you want to learn more about evolutionary biology I suggest The Red Queen by
Matt Ridley, Sperm Wars by Robin Baker, and The Selfish Gene by Richard Dawkins.
II. Another factor to understand is the power of the female sex drive. Society has been
set up in a way to make it seem as if men are the only gender that enjoys sex. This could
not be further from the truth. Additionally women do not experience their sexual peak
until the age of 32 while men experience their sexual peak at the tender age of 18. That
means women are continually becoming more sexual until the age of 32. To learn more
about the female sex drive check out Nancy Friday’s My Secret Garden, Erotic Surrender
by Claudia Varrin and the Story Of O by Pauline Reage.
III. Triune Brain Theory
Mammalian- Wraps around Reptialian. Limbic system. Hippocampus and the amygdala.
Power station of our desires and motivations. Controls bonding and complex emotions
such as jealousy, envy and love.
Reptilian- In charge of fight or flight instinct and automatic functions, also helps
determine hierarchies and our need to dominate and one up others.
Cerebral Cortex- Controls Logic
IV. Logic Vs Emotion
All people make emotional decisions and then come up with logical arguments to support
them.
What a woman says, indicates what she logically thinks she wants. What a woman does
indicates what she REALLY wants
V. Sexual Arousal
Arousal is a combination of the Limbic and Reptilian brain. There are physical things
happening as a woman becomes attracted. Arousal is an autonomic function.
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Arousal must have the appropriate perceptual filter on it, in order for a woman to act on
it(Credit SwinngCat for the wording). Each Brain system acts as a filter; logical- “He’s
my type”, Emotional(limbic) Jealousy or Compeitition. Reptilian- Fear builds arousal.
Women are sexually aroused multiple times a day but are not given the right desires to
act on this arousal.
VI. Attraction is the feeling of wanting someone and the compulsion to act on that desire.
Attraction is a feeling, which means that it is transient and can end at any time.
Attraction in and of itself is useless without the proper amount of investment. This is
why investment and not attraction is the secret to seducing women. Attraction exists only
as a tool to increase a woman’s amount of investment in the man.
VII. Girls just want to have FUN!
Emotional Stimulation- What you gets you the girl is one thing and one thing only, THE
WAY YOU MAKE HER FEEL!
Fun is the ULTIMATE attraction switch.
The Roles Emotions have with women and pickup
Using emotions to relate, ground yourself, and establish an identity for the
woman.
VIII. Sexual Needs
Need to Mate- Biological when arousal is triggered.
Need for sexual pleasure- Harder for women to orgasm.
Need to feel worthy and attractive- Women need to be validated for their looks no matter
how attractive they are. Women will sleep with men they are not attracted to for bragging
rights and validation. Think rock stars, athletes, politicians.
Need to be seduced- Women want to be overtaken and seduced by a powerful men.
Need to be a good lover or seducer- Women also want to be seductress
Need to make you orgasm- Women need to feel like they are the cause of
your sexual pleasure.
Ask female friends if they would be ok if they had an orgasm everytime they had sex but
their partner never did.
IX. The Emotions Of Sexual Arousal
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Fear- Comes from the same part of the brain as arousal and our fight or flight reflex
comes from.
Helplessness- The surrendering of all power triggers arousal
Discontent- A restless desire for something better; Obstacles build attraction/arousal.
Creating a void within the woman.
Fear of loss- taking away something a woman assumes she already has…
X. The Dilemma of Being an attractive woman.
The Ticking time bomb theory
Biological Clocks
Familial and Social Pressure.
XI. Societal Expectations and Pressures.
Judgement and Sexuality
The Disney Myth
The “slut” conundrum
Queen Bees and Wannabees the art of female social compeition
Clubs and The Prom, the psychology behind social climbing.
XII. The Female Sexual Cycle
Committed Relationship- Fulfilled Sexually, Emotionally and Intellectually, not
interested in cheating.
In a Relationship but looking- Not fulfilled on all three levels has a need to be filled.
On the Rebound- Broken up and depressed, may have a fling for a few weeks before
returning to her last boyfriend or moving on.
Being Single- Going on dates, hooking up, having new sex, not necessarily interested in
a relationship.
On a Boyfriend Hunt- Ready to get back into a committed relationship.
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